I can appreciate the pressure some people feel in finding the perfect Valentine's Day gift. In fact, the Dating forums here on About.com are currently buzzing with questions like: How do I avoid disaster? What will she like? Should I get her anything? (The answer to this last question is a most definite yes, by the way).

What follows is an overview of some basic ideas for Valentine's Day gifts, along with many links to provide you with more information to make a decision or make a purchase. Do you have a different idea as to what a Valentine's Day gift for a woman should look like? Then feel free to post a comment and let the debate begin.

Traditional Valentine's Day Gifts for Women

Traditional gifts for women on Valentine's Day include roses, chocolate, jewelry, perfume and lingerie, all of which are lovely ideas, and usually quite welcome. But instead of merely giving a gift similar to what her friends will likely receive as well, try stepping these traditional Valentine's Day gifts for women up a notch by personalizing them. Some suggestions:

• Create your own romantic gift basket such as a bubble bath for two, complete with a CD of classical romantic music, rose petals and wine;


• Wrap a book of love poetry in a lacy negligee;


• Make one or a couple of sweets for your sweetheart, hiding a heart pendant inside the packaging as a surprise.

Unique Valentine's Day Gifts for Women

For those with female partners that enjoy things a bit out of the ordinary, you'll need a to find a gift that reflects their nature and penchant for the unusual. Some suggestions include:

• Some sexy music, an erotic book and a romantic game for adults to be enjoyed together at a later date;


• Take an impromptu trip together to Ireland, Italy, or New York on February 14th; or


• Set up a Valentine's Day table to host a gourmet dinner club.

Need even more inspiration? Try:

• Top 10 Valentine Gifts for Women
• Valentine's Day Gifts for Mom
• Valentine Gift Ideas for Engaged Couples